Everyone in a relationship goes through a time when its becomes next to impossible to handle the other person. It happens in every relation because no one is perfect. We tend to take things for granted and before we know it; it gets difficult talking to the person. Fights, misunderstanding and irrelevant arguments replace all the sweet talks. I am no expert in this, but from what i have experienced; its very important to keep personal ego’s aside when trying to talk to your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend if you really want to fix a strained relationship. Its impossible to start talking all nice things all of a sudden after a big fight. There is really no need to do that. I personally believe its important to break the ice and someone has to take the first step. Let it be yourself. Its difficult. You will always ask yourself this question ‘why should I take the first step?’ As long as you don’t let this question bother you, you shall be fine.

A relation between two individuals is not just because of love. You might go into a relationship because of love but it takes more than just love to keep it going. It needs lot of understanding, patience and perseverance. Its easy to blame the other person and snap off ties but its very difficult to have enough patience to understand what the other person is going through. Be positive, be understanding, be sensitive to your partner’s feelings and love will do the rest and you will be back on track before you even realize it.

As someone rightly said

True love is totally unconditional