Expectations comes naturally to humans. Whether its from a daughter, son, boyfriend, girlfriend so on and so forth. What makes us expect so much from people we love? Whats makes us depend on them for comfort? May be the answer is too simple. May be its our nature that makes us think like that. A human brain is programmed to be social. May be its the bond that we make with others around us that eventually leads us to expect things out of them. Ever thought how life would be if there were no expectations?
It would be really weird indeed. Personally i cant be in any relationship without some kind of expectations. Be it friendship or otherwise. There has to be some level of expectation which binds us together. Its important to understand what are your expectations with any person in your life. And its equally important to understand the reason behind that expectation. If you end up expecting things from people that you yourself cant understand than how is it possible for the person from you are expecting these things; to understand it and acknowledge it.
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