Alchemy of Desire

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Birthday Blues

  • Filed under: Friends
Tuesday
Mar 18,2008

Its so important to remember birthdays of your friends. Had a bad start already. Hmm… let me see, I have missed at least 2 birthdays till now in 2008. I surprisingly remembered a school friend’s birthday whom i have not seen since 10 years now. And boy was he surprised when i left him a Happy Birthday message in yahoo messenger!

Fixing a strained relationship

Monday
Mar 17,2008

Everyone in a relationship goes through a time when its becomes next to impossible to handle the other person. It happens in every relation because no one is perfect. We tend to take things for granted and before we know it; it gets difficult talking to the person. Fights, misunderstanding and irrelevant arguments replace all the sweet talks. I am no expert in this, but from what i have experienced; its very important to keep personal ego’s aside when trying to talk to your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend if you really want to fix a strained relationship. Its impossible to start talking all nice things all of a sudden after a big fight. There is really no need to do that. I personally believe its important to break the ice and someone has to take the first step. Let it be yourself. Its difficult. You will always ask yourself this question ‘why should I take the first step?’ As long as you don’t let this question bother you, you shall be fine.

A relation between two individuals is not just because of love. You might go into a relationship because of love but it takes more than just love to keep it going. It needs lot of understanding, patience and perseverance. Its easy to blame the other person and snap off ties but its very difficult to have enough patience to understand what the other person is going through. Be positive, be understanding, be sensitive to your partner’s feelings and love will do the rest and you will be back on track before you even realize it.

As someone rightly said

True love is totally unconditional

Can love exist without hate?

  • Filed under: Love
Monday
Mar 17,2008

Its a pretty interesting question and while browsing the net i came across some very interesting comments

Love and Hate is probably the most complex relationship of emotions that exists,. How can you love if you dont know what hate feels like, and how can you hate if you have never loved?

Love is so much closer to hate than you think.. You really have to work at love hate just happen

Just like what osho said in the video that i posted sometime ago, Love and hate are the two sides of the same coin. True indeed.

Love and Hate are one

  • Filed under: Love
Monday
Mar 17,2008

Going through some Osho videos today. I liked this one a lot. Love and Hate are one. According to him its the continuous preaching of love which has destroyed it. While hate is still pure. When you hate; your hate has authenticity and when you love; its only hypocrisy.

Take a look at this video.

Testing wp-flickr

Monday
Mar 17,2008

hello

Flickr

Monday
Mar 17,2008

Photo sharing from Flickr account

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Special Thanks

  • Filed under: Site
Monday
Mar 17,2008

Been customizing the theme a bit. It wasnt widget ready. Edited to make it widget aware. Its quite simple to make this theme widget ready. Special thanks to Darjan Panic for creating this wonderful theme.

Alchemy of Desire online

  • Filed under: Site
Monday
Mar 17,2008

The Blog is now online. Will post more about it later. Have to customize it a lot :)

Custom Test

  • Filed under: Site
Monday
Mar 17,2008

Testing post timings